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Who am I? Where do I come from? 

I am Emily Lee. I am Taiwanese. I was born and raised in Taichung, Taiwan and all my family members, including my parents and grandparents, reside in Taiwan. Since young, I have always been someone who is very spontaneous and just do what I believe in. So when I was 14, I decided that the Taiwan educational system was not for me and left the country to study in the states. All of this was made possible because of my supportive, kind, loving parents who believed in me and supported what I believed in. Fast forward 8 years later, I am a senior now in the University of Southern California studying business administration.

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Where am I going? How am I planning on getting there?

I want to become someone who one day has enough power to help the world in need to and make changes and hopefully one day have my own social venture. I plan on getting there by continue to pursue my progressive degree at USC and connecting with likeminded people to make the world a better place. 

How am I like/unlike my parents?

I am very similar to my parents when it comes to my core values as well as work ethics. My parents came from nothing and worked so hard to get to where they are today; they are humble, extremely hardworking, and persistence. Even beyond that, they always see the good within people; they taught me to always be kind, compassionate, and forgiving. I always remember that there was this one day where my car got hit in the parking lot and the person didn't even leave a note and I was really upset about it. However, the first thing my parents said was that the person who hit my car probably just doesn't have the financial ability or insurance to pay for the damage of the car and told me to not be so riled up about it. It is because of my parents that I am someone who has a lot of empathy and can see things from a different perspective. 

At the same time, my parents can be really tense and I was just like them, but in recent years I have learned to relax a bit more. My mom is also amazingly good at connecting with people and is super charismatic and she sees the opportunities when it comes to business; although not being exactly like her, I do hope to learn more from her.

Have I developed my own expectations of myself?

I think I have. Maybe it is because of growing up in an Asian society, it tends to become the norm to have high expectations for yourself. I do think that a lot of my expectations also come from the society and the definition of "being successful". Ever since I could remember, I had high expectations for myself. I started going to cram schools and having tutors in elementary school in order to excel in my academics and get into all the middle schools. I think now I am a bit more relaxed in trying to figure out what I really want to do in life.

Who serves as a model for me of someone who lives life with great passion and personal responsibility?

My parents have always been my biggest role models, but there's someone else who left a lasting impression on me: a doctor I met on my volunteer trips to Cambodia with a medical camp. This was between the ages of 13 and 17. He wasn't just any doctor; he had this incredible energy and commitment to helping others. I remember him telling me, "Even the smallest act of kindness can be life-changing for someone else." This really stuck with me.  What made him stand out was how he put those words into action. He would travel to various places, always ready to lend a hand, using his medical skills to help people in the most remote and challenging areas. It wasn't just about treating illnesses; it was how he connected with everyone. He listened to their stories, offered comfort, and went above and beyond just being a doctor.  This experience with him really shaped how I see the world and my role in it. It taught me that personal responsibility isn't just about doing your job; it's about making a positive impact in whatever way you can, big or small.

What wild animal do you feel a special connection with, and why?

I do feel like I have a special connection with sloths. I know it is weird. I don't know why but I saw sloths as my spirit animal. To me, they are just the most adorable little slow creature that just didn't have a care in the world. They take their time to relax and they are unbothered.

What is my significant childhood encounter with a tree or plant?

We had a little balcony garden in my house when I was growing up and the one thing I remember the most clearly was the kumquat tree. In our culture, kumquat tree is believed to to be an auspicious plant which symbolizes wealth and prosperity. I just remember growing up being able to pick the little kumquat from the tree and eat it– it was just a really interesting feeling to be able to eat fruit off of a tree in your house. As a kid, you really do feel very special.


🌞Sun Sign: Aquarius ♒

🌝 Moon Sign: Cancer ♋

⋰Ascendant/ Rising Sign: Pisces ♓

Comments

  1. Hi Emily,
    I like how organized you made you post and how detailed you were when answering the questions. I do have to agree with you on expectations. Having high expectations rooted from family values and also how society having the definition of being successful is the only option is in my opinion a little cut throat. Not to say don't have high expectations but to also look at it as a sense of not everything can meet someone's expectations and to look take a step back and really figure out what is it that makes me happy and fulfilled in life. Overall I had a great time reading your post and look forward in reading more of your posts further into the semester.

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  2. Hi Emily! I really enjoyed all of the stories you shared and honestly felt a lot of similarities in what you shared with what I've seen in my family. I especially appreciated the story you shared about the doctor you met and how he really put his words into action. Since you mentioned being interested in pursuing a social venture some day, what sector(s) are you most interested in working in? Are you interested in supporting/expanding health care in remote regions like the person you look up to? Or perhaps focusing on another sector where you could make an impact.

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  3. Hi Emily, I am also Taiwanese! Although my family moved to Shanghai during my early childhood, I often traveled back to Taiwan every year. Why did you decide that the Taiwan educational system was not for you? I also grew up with a lot of cram schools and can understand the high academic pressure and expectations. I'm glad you're more relaxed and hopefully making progress in figuring out what you want to do!

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  4. Hi Emily! You’re such an empathetic and independent individual, and I’m absolutely amazed by your core values and everything you’ve done. Do you think you’ll move back to Taiwan after college, especially since you’ve been studying abroad since you were 14? On another note, I also have a soft spot for sloths and love how calm they are all the time. I’m excited to have a class with you this semester, and good luck with everything this year!

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  5. Hi Emily! I really liked how you designed your blog - its so aesthetic! Reading your story about meeting a doctor on your volunteer trips to Cambodia was really moving and I think it was great reading about how this experience was unique to you and made an impact on you. And yes, I agree, sloths are so cute and adorable!

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  6. Hi Emily, I was immediately drawn to your blog because of its unique design. I wanted to start by saying I would love to learn how you personalized your page. Secondly, WOW I really admire your courage in following your intuition when taking life-changing decisions like moving to another country. I also think it's great that you have a passion for impacting the world, it will guide you in your path.

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